Tuesday, January 27, 2009
When can a dvar Torah be delivered?
Synagogue Board meetings generally start with a short dvar Torah by the rabbi or individual Board member. The idea is to get everyone focused on what the real work of the Board is. In the same way, a dvar Torah at an appropriate time during the celebration helps to elevate the event and keep everyone mindful of the 'mitzvah' in bar mitzvah.
I invite your comments on this!!
Finding a dvar Torah topic - A Story
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Starting to think about Dvar torah
How do I tie in a speech to the Torah portion? Click here.
You'll see that there are discussions about many topics - maybe a question or concern you have is addressed. Let me know if you come across something especially useful or controversial and I will pass it along!
Monday, January 12, 2009
Tallit Workshop Information – Don’t worry, you have lots of time!
For those of you that want to plan ahead, here is the information for the tallit making workshop. This workshop is the final Bar/Bat Mitzvah family program for the year and it is scheduled for Sunday, March 29th.
Fabric requirements:
Oversized Tallit - Approx. 70" x 40"
Regular Tallit - Approx. 70" x 18"
The rectangular piece of fabric should be finished on all four sides. If you want to use a contrasting color for an 'atarah' (neckband) and to reinforce the corners, you will need approximately 1/3 yard more of material. You may also purchase ready-made atarot at the Judaica Store that have the tallit blessing on them. Girls: Please remember that some of the satiny fabrics are slippery and you may have trouble keeping it on your shoulders.
The neckband and corners can either be ironed on using "fusible web" or sewn on. Most importantly, there should be a finished hole or buttonhole in each of the four corners.
We will provide you with kosher "tsitsit". You will learn to tie the knots as part of the workshop.
This is always a great workshop and the finished tallitot are beautiful!
If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to ask!
Choosing where to Give Tzedakah when there is so much need
Giving tzedekah in honor of a bar or bat mitzvah or as part of a mitzvah project is an excellent way for the new Jewish 'adult' to get started on a lifelong habit of giving. Here are a few resources for finding charities that are doing work that is meaningful to your family and that you can count on to be efficient.
Check out I've Done My Part at:
http://www.ivedonemypart.org/charities.html
And for guidance in choosing charities, Charity Navigator at:
http://www.charitynavigator.org/
Please feel free to share any information that you have on your favorite charities!
Sunday, January 11, 2009
Thinking about invitations – Please share!
Need some help with language and wording for bar/bat mitzvah invitations? Here are just a few of lots of ideas out there. Remember that it is a great extra touch to use your child's Hebrew name as well as their English name. Having the name of their parasha on the invitation is good too. Some people even choose a verse from the parasha to include as well. Go ahead and comment and share some other suggestions that you may have!
A rich tradition of yesterday.
The bright promise of tomorrow.
We invite you to share a
precious moment in our lives
as our DAUGHTER/SON
becomes a BAT/BAR MITZVAH
Because you have touched our lives
with your friendship and love,
we invite you to join us in creating
a cherished memory as our
SON/DAUGHTER
is called to the Torah as a
BAR/BAT MITZVAH
on Parashat Lech Lecha
With pride, joy and mostly with love,
we invite you to join us as we celebrate
as our SON/DAUGHTER
Becomes a BAR/BAT Mitzvah
at the Havdalah Service
Thursday, January 8, 2009
Did you know?
At the last program, we talked a lot about ways to make everyone involved with the simcha feel comfortable EVEN if their Jewish background was weak. You should know that your own Beth El Temple website has a library of audio files of many parts of the Shabbat service that you can listen to or download anytime! Your kids may already have some of these files on their ipods! See below for the direct link, but you can also find it on the Education tab of the website.
http://bethelwesthartford.org/resources/audio.php
Recorded by our own Cantor Ness!