While it is very important that the bar/bat mitzvah present words of Torah at the service, there are other opportunities as well. Anytime that we can connect our ancient texts to our everyday lives is a chance to demonstrate the relevance and timelessness of our tradition. At the kiddush luncheon it is very appropriate for a family member or the bar/bat mitzvah themselves to stand up and deliver a few words. It is especially nice for parents and grandparents to use that time to impart words of Torah. Certainly if there is a dinner or in conjunction with a candle-lighting ceremony, a short dvar Toah can be delivered. It helps to keep the whole event grounded in tradition and values.
Synagogue Board meetings generally start with a short dvar Torah by the rabbi or individual Board member. The idea is to get everyone focused on what the real work of the Board is. In the same way, a dvar Torah at an appropriate time during the celebration helps to elevate the event and keep everyone mindful of the 'mitzvah' in bar mitzvah.
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